Porter Turns 5

We love our Porter boy. I could not imagine our family without him. The birthday boy with his new holster and his cowboy pistols. He also got some nifty new boots to match.
Porter is 5 years old........ going on 16. He refuses to believe that he just turned 5. He is convinced that he is 16 and no one will tell him otherwise. :)


I had to throw this picture in because it is totally a typical Porter pose.

For his birthday dinner he specifically asked if we could go to a Mexican restaurant so that the "Mexican ladies could come and sing him a song."

A birthday wish come true!

Jean Johnson Funeral 10-16-2010

The floral arrangement was made with her favorite colors by her son... Matt Johnson. The casket was made by Layci's father. (Layci is engaged to Dave's brother Brian.)


Cousins....... Tag, Riggin and Porter

Porter and my mom


More cousins..... Teagan, Maddie, Gracie, Tag, Riggin and Porter
My boys

Porter's favorite cousin Ashley

This is why she is his favorite cousin :)

Kaden



Our family

Please ignore the puffy eyes and no make-up .... I sure love this man

Patterson / Johnson Siblings

Front Row : Ashely, Shavaun, Lynette, Dave

Back Row : Jeff, Rebecca, Emily, Jennifer, Tina

Missing : Matt, Matt and Brian

Jean's Parents and Siblings

The night before the funeral the family gathered together and each person made one of their moms favorite recipes. Dave's mom was an EXCELLENT cook. This is Dave preparing her cheesecake recipe. She had a family of 8 children so the tradition was that it was prepared on a cookie sheet to ensure there would be enough for everybody.
This is a picture of Porter climbing the jungle gym to lay a carefully colored picture that he made for Grandma Jean. He hoped that the wind would pick it up and carry it to heaven.

I wanted to quickly let everyone know that our family has not disappeared off of the face of the earth. We have spent the last two weeks in Boise with Dave's mom. Those of you that know us well know that in December of 2009 Dave's mom was diagnosed with Leukemia. After 10 months of treatments she passed away on October 13 in her home surrounded by most of her family.

Dave was fortunate to have spent a great deal of time with his mom over the past few months. He was able to take her to and from doctors appointments and help her as much as he could. He left for Arizona on Monday the 4th of October for some additional training. He received a call on Wednesday morning that his mom had taken a terrible turn and would probably only have a few days left. He was immediately flown into Boise. The boys and I left the next morning and our entire family was able to spend 4 amazing days with his mom. She was alert and coherent and we were able to say the things that we wanted and needed to say. All of her eight children came from their various locations to be with her. It was the first time in our married life that the entire family was together. I distinctly remember sitting in the room surrounded by Dave's family and an overwhelming feeling of peace came over me knowing that these moments may be on hold for a time but will resume again. Families are forever.

On Sunday the 10th Jean (Dave's mom) asked for him to give her a blessing. It was a sweet blessing and a comfort to us all. Dave knew at that time that the veil was thinning and she would soon leave this earth. The next morning she was no longer as coherent as she had been and she did not recover. October 13th she passed away.

Some things that I want to share are also some of the things that I want to remember forever. She said, "in this life she felt that she was spread a little thin and was not able to take care of all of her kids and grandchildren the way she wanted........ but that she knew that where she was going she would be able to watch over us all the way she wished she could have in this life."

I will also never forget when my little Porter climbed up on her bed and put his arms around her neck and with no prompting from anyone said, "I'm going to miss you Grandma Jean...... but I'll see you again." It was almost more than my little heart could take to hear him say what probably would be his last true goodbye in this life but immediately I felt so lucky to absolutely KNOW that he was right.

Her funeral was on October 16th, also her 59th birthday. It was absolutely beautiful. She asked Dave to giver her Life Sketch. I can honestly say that he gave on of the most sincere and kind talks I have ever heard. He did an excellent job. I know that it was extremely difficult for him but now I think it was an experience he would never give up.

I have so many things that I want to post..... so many things that I want to remember...... so please forgive me if I continue to post things pertaining to this event in our lives. I want to also thank the people who have called, sent cards, made meals and have stopped in to check on us. Your kindness has helped so much. I love those people that are willing to go out of their way just to do something for someone because they know that they might be hurting. These people definitely made a difference for us!!!!! Thank you!!!!